About Me

Going through a divorce was the hardest thing I’ve ever faced. It’s something no one expects, let alone prepares for, and when it hit, I found myself lost—searching for books, blogs, and communities that could guide me through it. While there’s no shortage of divorce advice, I realized much of it didn’t speak to young women of color like me.

Being young gave me a silver lining—a chance to restart my life with the possibility of a new career, marriage, more children, and new friendships. But being a Black woman introduced its unique challenges. I encountered stereotypes like being labeled a "baby mama," along with societal stigmas that complicate the process of healing and rebuilding. As a Christian, I wrestled with the tension between faith, marriage, and divorce—navigating a path that honored both God’s will and my well-being, with little practical guidance to follow.

So, I decided to create the guidance I wished I had. My goal is to share the lessons I’ve learned with honesty, humor, and faith—to help other women, especially women of color, move forward with grace, strength, and purpose.