Closure isn’t a conversation, a final text, or a perfectly wrapped ending—it’s a decision you make for yourself. You cannot step into the love you deserve while keeping the door cracked for the love that already failed you.

One night, I found myself crouched on the side of my bed, frantically scrolling through my daughter’s iPad, uncovering hours of group chat messages filled with name-calling, gaslighting, and way too many TikTok links. That was the moment I knew—less screen time, more real life, and what better way to start than with one of her favorite traditions: the Lunar New Year Festival at The Huntington Gardens.

Reflection is how we honor the past while preparing for the future—celebrating wins, learning from challenges, and setting the stage for growth. By combining intentional goal-setting with a vision board to keep my dreams in focus, I’m stepping into 2025 with clarity and purpose.

From Cajun-spiced shrimp and grits to a dessert bar filled with our favorite treats, we crafted a wedding menu that was as bold, soulful, and unforgettable as the day itself.

Creating a co-parenting plan that works means setting aside emotions, prioritizing your child, and communicating with your co-parent like the teammate your child needs you to be.

Dating after divorce isn’t about rushing into anything—it’s about doing the work to heal, set boundaries, and know exactly what you want from a partner. When you're truly ready, you'll recognize the difference between settling and choosing a relationship that adds value to your life.